How To Love Money – Start A Whole New Love Affair With Money Like This!
This video is all about an exercise that is so powerful and just feels so good! It you want to learn how to love money so that more of it manifests in your life, then please try this.
It’s going to seem a little bit wacky if you haven’t done anything like this before but it’s just a brilliant exercise to do and you can do it as often as you like just to create great energy around money and that exercise is to improve your relationship with money.
So I’ve said previously in other videos if money was a real person – it was stood there and you could actually have a conversation with money you would see that your relationship needs some serious attention. It needs to be nurtured just like any other relationship that you have with friends and family and other loved ones.
This exercise is all about writing a love letter to money – and no-one else has to see this love letter this is something that’s just between you and money to improve your relationship. Now I first heard about this in a little group I used to be part of it was which was all about raising our money energy.
I don’t think the group exists anymore but it was just a great exercise and loads of us did it together. At that time I even created an email address and I used to type out my letters to money and I would send it to that email address.
Now if you want to send your love letter to my email address firstname.lastname@example.org please feel free to do so. No-one else will see it except for me and it would be great to actually read your love letter that you’ve written to money to change that relationship, to nurture it and just to improve your energy with money going forward. So if you’re alright with me reading that then please feel free to send it to the email address email@example.com
So what’s going into this love letter that you’re going to send to money? Well it’s all going to be around just getting out that feeling of what’s not gone right in the past – so just like if you were mending a physical relationship with another person you might want to start with something like:
‘I know our relationship has been a bit tense in the past, I know that I haven’t always appreciated you as I should have done, I know that you know up until now our relationship hasn’t always been the best but I just want to turn this around now’
…and the letter can contain some apology for things that you’ve done in the past so things like:
‘you know I’m sorry that I always thought you weren’t there for me, I’m sorry that I always saw you as something that was about lack and scarcity, I didn’t see your true light, I didn’t see your true abundance’
…and then in your letter, you can then go on to say how you want your relationship to be moving forward and that you hope that money can accept your apology and that you can create this new nurturing relationship around it.
Just let it flow and then just let it move in to ‘this is how I want it to be moving forward’.
This is such a powerful powerful experience.
If you do like to write (I admit it is easier if you do like to write) – if you’re not a writer then this might not be the best exercise for you. You might want to do it as more of a visualization or you might want to just write a list to money about how you’d like to change a relationship.
For those of you that like the free-flow journaling style writing, a letter to money’s going to feel so good because whilst you’re writing that letter to money it’s going to actually feel like you’re in that moment, that you’re totally connected from an emotional level and the relief that you can feel after you’ve finished writing that letter just feels so good.
So just let it feel natural and flow – ‘I’ve apologized for not nurturing our relationship, I’ve apologized for the way things have been between this up until this point and this is what I’d like to do moving forward’ or ‘ this is the commitment I make to you money for us to have a better relationship in the future, this is what I’m gonna do…. this is how I’m going to think of you…’
Let’s say that you had a real person standing there and you thought badly of them and you thought about that person as if they weren’t enough, that they were never there for you, that you’re always having a go at them. That person wouldn’t be in your life for long, yet when it comes to money it’s just such an important relationship – just as important as any other relationships.
Money is always going to be around us, we’re always going to be around money until the day we pass on to the next dimension (whatever that may be). We can’t divorce money, we can’t break up with it, it’s just going to be there all our lives. If we want to live in modern society, we have to accept that money is our form of value exchange and we can either have a love story with money or we can have a hate story with money and I know which one I choose!
So get your pen and paper out and start writing that love letter to money as this can totally change your relationship – and anytime you’re feeling scarcity or lack and you just feel like you want to re-energize that relationship you can do this exercise again and again and again.
It can even form part of your daily / weekly journaling activity because if each time you know that you’ve had those feelings of lack, you write that letter out to say something like…
‘I know that earlier this week I had these feelings around this and I’ve made this commitment to you please be patient with me I am changing – I’m changing my beliefs around you and our relationship and I want to nurture that moving forward so therefore over the next week, this is what I’m committing to with you….’.
It’s just amazing can you imagine how brilliant all our relationships would be if we committed to them in that way and your relationship with money is one of the most important ones that you’ll have in your life.
So enjoy writing that love letter whether you write it on paper and you just keep it as something for yourself, whether you write it in your journal and that feels good or whether you use my email and you just want to ping that off to me knowing that is safe and that it’s not going to go anywhere.
Just enjoy creating this new love affair with money and just see how it wants to be around you more and more.