Life is a mirror which means that however we feel, however we are ‘being’, is reflected back to us in some form.
So we don’t always experience what we want or desire in life simply because we are experiencing what ‘we are’ – usually without even realising it.
We always get a reflection of how we are being right now, and in particular, when it comes to our sense of worthiness, life is reflecting back to us what we feel we deserve right now.
The challenge with this is that it can put us in a state of waiting all the time. Almost like we are waiting until we feel worthy enough, we’re waiting for validation from a certain person, we’re waiting for approval from our peers, our boss, our partner before we feel like we deserve what we actually want in life. Of course – the approval we crave is rarely enough and this is why we have to change our ‘mirror’ from the inside out.
Life is just mirroring everything back to us – it’s almost like you are standing in front of this universal mirror and you’ve got all these labels stuck on you about ‘who I am’, this sense of how worthy and deserving you feel right now. Whatever these labels say about you, that universal mirror is reading them and reflecting ‘what they say’ as experiences in your life in one way or another.
Those invisible labels that are stuck all over you are your vibration – your universal mirror is reading that vibration and reflecting it back to you as an exact match in an equivalent form. And this vibration has become your state of being – who you are.
And much of this is because we are just reliving our past over and over again. You know how it goes – we wake up, we do the same thing, we think the same thoughts, we say the same things to people… a bit like groundhog day in our heads – until we have had enough and decide we have to change those old thought habits on a conscious level.
Well it’s time for us to do that otherwise we are going to be reflecting back the same stuff in our lives day in and day out – just saying the same things to the same people, attracting the same results because life is a mirror – simply reflecting back what you are putting out there, what you are.
And if you start each day with this outdated belief about who you are, what you are, what you deserve, what you choose to be – you are gonna be getting the same results over and over again.
So it’s time to get out of our comfort zones a bit – and the reason we stay in our comfort zones day in, day out and just keep re-living the same things over and over is because we like to be where we feel comfortable. Although there is an element of discomfort from staying there, we know it, it’s familiar – I know you can relate!
We know where we are – and even though we are stuck in our day to day moaning and groaning and attracting the same results over and over again, it might not be comfortable but we know it – it feel familiar – and our egos love that familiarity.
Because we ca’t get rejected that way… its almost like our armour goes up and we are protected ourselves from feeling less worthy but it’s really having the opposite effect. Getting stuck in or comfort zone and not doing anything to change anything is just keeping us stuck.
So how can we get out of this? We can just choose new experiences outside of our comfort zone everyday – things you wanna do of course!
Are you actually going for the life you want or are you just staying in your comfort zone?
If you want to get healthier, are you coming out of your comfort zone and trying new things, trying new ideas, trying a new exercise class?
If you want to feel better about the job you are in, are you trying different approaches with people, are you thinking about the way that you want to be – your state of being whilst you are in the workplace?
If you want to start feeling better about yourself, are you trying different ways of saying things to yourself that make you feel better instead of worse?
Its all about changing your default. Stop pressing that button every morning that resets your day like you are reliving yesterday over and over – choose something different. Resist that factory reset every morning. Its time to break the cycle, it’s time to show your universal mirror something different.
Its time to stand in front of that universal mirror and pull off some of those old outdated labels that you have plastered yourself with over the years based on your past experiences and choose some new ones.
When we start shedding or replacing some of those labels with a new intention of who we want to be, that’s when life starts to change.
We are standing in front of that mirror and we are showing it that we desire something different. Everything is to do with our state of being – what we believe about ourselves, the world what we deserve.
Its time to get our of that comfort zone, choose a new way of being.
So today, choose one thing that you want to evolve in. What is that ultimate different state of being that you desire in this area?… keep that one thing at the forefront of your mind and start to life your life as if it were so.
Whether you choose a certain affirmation or mantra that you repeat to yourself when you find yourself slipping back into your old patterns.
And sometimes it feels hard to shift the way we have been thinking for years but we can do it, we can shift our reality – it just takes persistence and the decision to do something new day after day until it becomes a habit, until we take on this new label.
This is your life, you get to shape it however you want. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks, its what you think, it’s how you want to be.
Just commit to doing it for 30 days – and it will become a habit…. even better, journal about it for 30 days to really let this new way of being in as a more permanent fixture.
And once we knock off one of those labels that no longer serves us, we can start on the next one – just gradual shifts, one step at a time to invite that new relection into our reality.
A reflection that we have created by design, not by default.
We can choose who we want to be. Stop staying stuck because you can only see the reflection in your mirror that you are getting right now.
No more factory resetting that old device, it’s time to invest in your own upgrade…. because only you can change what you see in your mirror.
Its time to choose a new reflection, a new experience.
Life is a mirror. What are you reflecting in yours?